"Life is like a cycle, an ecosystem. You will always encounter the same patterns, in situations and in people, because these things act like magnets. There are things that need to be pushed through or broken open to strengthen the circle as a whole.
That requires deep, honest self-analysis. Not only regret, but real change. Whether you can truly change depends on whether you know the reason, and find the deep motivation behind the behaviour. That requires precise and ruthless analysis."木夏 · Min M Lee